Books About Sex And Gender · 251 titles considered

The Best Sex And Gender Books for Kids

By the Bookroo Editors

Looking for excellent children's books about sex and gender? This collection brings together Bookroo's highest-rated and most useful picks in one place.

Start with our editorial favorites, then browse recommendations organized by reading stage to find the right book for your reader.

Felix Ever After
Every Day
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Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 2020

Furia

By Yamile Saied Méndez

A young soccer star must defy family expectations to chase her dreams and navigate a complicated love.

Americas Honor (2021)
368 pages· 74,369 words· Est. 7 hour read
4.1/5 Goodreads · 15,619 ratings
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Summary: In Rosario, Argentina, Camila Hassan leads a double life. At home, she's a dutiful daughter under her father's strict rule. On the soccer field, she's La Furia, a rising star. When her team qualifies for a major tournament, Camila faces a dilemma: pursue her dreams or adhere to her family's expectations. Complicating matters, her former love, now an international soccer sensation, returns. As Camila battles for her future, she must confront secrets and decide if love or ambition will guide her path. Will she break free and claim her destiny, or will her dreams remain out of reach?
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 2020

Felix Ever After

A teen's revenge plan leads to unexpected love and self-discovery.

368 pages· 85,209 words· Est. 8 hour read
4.2/5 Goodreads · 67,629 ratings
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Summary: Felix, a transgender teen, seeks revenge on an anonymous bully who exposed his past. As he navigates a complex love triangle, Felix embarks on a journey of self-discovery, questioning his identity and redefining his self-worth. Will he find the love he deserves, or will his plan backfire, leaving him more vulnerable than ever? Dive into a story of identity, love, and the courage to embrace oneself.
Chapter Book · Ages 8–12 · 2018

Drum Roll, Please

A shy drummer faces friendship shifts, family changes, and unexpected love at summer camp.

320 pages· 63,618 words· Est. 9 hour read
4.2/5 Goodreads · 2,002 ratings
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Summary: Melly, a shy drummer, finds solace in music at Camp Rockaway. As her parents split and her best friend drifts away, she unexpectedly falls for another girl. Can Melly find her rhythm amidst the chaos and embrace her true self? Discover if she can turn the noise in her heart into a powerful beat.
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Chapter Book · Ages 8–12 · 2014

Princess Princess Ever After

Two princesses unite to defeat a jealous sorceress threatening their kingdom.

53 pages· 1,776 words· Est. 20 min read
4.0/5 Goodreads · 23,651 ratings
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Summary: When Princess Amira rescues Princess Sadie from a tower, they form an unexpected bond. Together, they must confront a jealous sorceress determined to eliminate Sadie. As they journey across the kingdom, their friendship deepens, revealing strengths they never knew they had. Can they overcome their greatest foe and discover what 'happily ever after' truly means? Join Amira and Sadie on a magical adventure filled with bravery, friendship, and the quest for a shared destiny.
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 1982

Annie on My Mind

A secret love tests Liza's honesty and courage.

234 pages· 60,151 words· Est. 5.5 hour read
4.0/5 Goodreads · 56,845 ratings
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Summary: Liza's world turns upside down when she falls for Annie, a love that brings joy and confusion. As her mother demands the truth about their relationship, Liza faces a dilemma: protect her heart or reveal her secret. With emotions running high, Liza must navigate the complexities of love and honesty, knowing that one wrong move could change everything. Will she find the courage to be true to herself, or will fear keep her silent?
Chapter Book · Ages 12–18 · 2012

Every Day

By David Levithan · Book #1 in the Every Day series

A wakes up in a new body daily, but love for one girl defies all rules.

322 pages· 74,593 words· Est. 7 hour read
3.9/5 Goodreads · 245,949 ratings
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Summary: Every day, A inhabits a different body, living a new life. Yet, A's heart remains constant, in love with Rhiannon. When A meets her as Justin, everything changes. Can love endure when identity shifts daily? As A and Rhiannon navigate this extraordinary challenge, they must confront the question: is love possible when the person you love is never the same? Dive into a world where the boundaries of identity and affection are tested, and discover if love can truly transcend the physical form.
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 2020

The Mermaid, the Witch, and the Sea

A pirate and a lady defy fate and captors on the high seas.

360 pages
3.8/5 Goodreads · 12,776 ratings
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Summary: Florian, a cunning pirate, and Lady Evelyn, a rebellious noble, find unexpected love aboard a ship where danger lurks. As captives of a treacherous crew, they must defy their oppressors and reclaim their destinies. Amidst magic, betrayal, and mythical creatures, can they chart a course to freedom and love, or will the forces of colonialism and control tear them apart? Their daring escape could change everything, but at what cost?
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 1975

Forever...

Katherine questions love's permanence when summer brings new feelings.

240 pages· 38,379 words· Est. 3.5 hour read
3.6/5 Goodreads · 68,743 ratings
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Summary: Katherine believes her love with Michael is eternal, especially after they share an intimate moment. But a summer apart stirs unexpected emotions for someone new. As Katherine grapples with her heart's shifting desires, she must confront what 'forever' truly means. Is her bond with Michael the love of a lifetime, or just the start of her journey in love? This exploration of first love and its complexities will leave you questioning the nature of true connection.
Chapter Book · Ages 12–18 · 1959

A Separate Peace

Two friends' bond shatters, mirroring a world at war.

206 pages· 56,787 words· Est. 5.5 hour read
3.6/5 Goodreads · 235,441 ratings
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Summary: At a New England boarding school during WWII, Gene, a reserved intellectual, and Phineas, a daring athlete, navigate a summer that tests their friendship. As tensions rise, innocence fades, echoing the global conflict. What unfolds between them changes everything, leaving readers questioning loyalty and the loss of youth.
Picture Book · Ages 4–7 · 2019

The Tide

A girl navigates her grandpa's fading memories at the beach.

32 pages
6.0/7 Bookroo experts·4.1/5 Goodreads · 318 ratings
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Summary: A young girl cherishes beach days with her grandpa, building sandcastles and sharing laughter. Yet, his memories ebb and flow like the tide, sometimes vibrant, sometimes distant. As she grapples with his forgetfulness, she learns how love and understanding can help him live well despite dementia. Can their bond withstand the challenges of fading memories?
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Sex And Gender Board Books for Babies & Toddlers

Sturdy, inviting books about sex and gender for the youngest readers and listeners.

I Love You for Miles and Miles

Ages 0–4 · 2017

Love travels with you, stronger than any machine.

I Love You, Daddy
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I Love You, Daddy

Ages 0–3 · 2011

Discover the tender bond between father and child in a heartwarming tale of love and security.

Why I Love My Daddy
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Why I Love My Daddy

Ages 3–7 · 2006

Discover why daddies are adored through children's heartfelt words and animal illustrations.

Being You

Ages 3–6 · 2021

Start vital conversations on gender with young children through engaging stories and imagery.

I Love My Daddy

Ages 0–3 · 2011

A toddler's view of love between father and child unfolds joyfully.

Who Is Ruth Bader Ginsburg?
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Who Is Ruth Bader Ginsburg?

Ages 2–4 · 2020

Discover Ruth Bader Ginsburg's impactful life in a preschool-friendly biography.

Is That Your Dad?

Ages 0–3 · 2019

Froggy embarks on a quest to discover his true father, eliminating unlikely candidates along the way.

My Dad Is Amazing
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My Dad Is Amazing

Ages 1–3 · 2018

Celebrate dads with a whimsical tribute to their amazing qualities and a special nod to their little fans.

The Grandpa Book
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The Grandpa Book

Ages 2–5 · 2011

Celebrate the unique bond between grandfathers and grandchildren with vibrant illustrations and heartwarming tales.

Duck, Duck, Dad?
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Duck, Duck, Dad?

Ages 0–4 · 2023

A dog becomes an unexpected dad to a flock of ducklings. Chaos ensues!

The Very Best Daddy of All

Ages 2–4 · 2004

A boy discovers his dad's love through comforting and brave acts.

Once Upon a Potty -- Boy

Ages 2–4 · 1980

A child embarks on the potty-training journey with a trusty guide.

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Sex And Gender Picture Books

Illustrated read-alouds about sex and gender for preschool and elementary-age readers.

The Remember Balloons

Ages 5–9 · 2018

A boy struggles to preserve his grandpa's fading memories as they drift away.

Grandpa Green

Ages 5–8 · 2011

A great-grandfather's life story from childhood to old age.

Big Papa and the Time Machine

Ages 4–8 · 2020

A boy and his grandpa journey through time to discover the essence of bravery.

111 Trees

Ages 5–8 · 2020

A boy transforms his village by planting trees for every girl's birth, challenging tradition and sparking change.

Ballerino Nate

Ages 4–7 · 2006

A boy defies stereotypes to pursue his ballet dreams.

You and Me, Me and You

Ages 3–6 · 2017

Celebrate the timeless bond between father and child through life's shared moments.

Dad By My Side
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Dad By My Side

Ages 4–8 · 2018

Discover the magic of a father's love through enchanting illustrations.

Julián Is a Mermaid
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Julián Is a Mermaid

Ages 4–8 · 2018

A young boy named Julian discovers his abuela's secret.

When Grandpa Gives You a Toolbox

Ages 3–7 · 2020

A boy's unexpected gift leads to a creative adventure with his grandpa.

My Daddy Is a Cowboy

Ages 4–8 · 2024

A girl discovers her inner cowboy during a dawn ride with her father.

My Shadow Is Pink

Ages 5–7 · 2020

A boy discovers the courage to embrace his unique shadow.

My Moms Love Me
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My Moms Love Me

Ages 3–5 · 2022

Two moms and their child share a day filled with love and joy.

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Sex And Gender Chapter Books & Middle Grade

Longer stories about sex and gender for developing and independent readers.

Bea Is for Blended

Ages 8–12 · 2021

A girl fights for an all-girls soccer team amidst family changes.

Ellen Outside the Lines

Ages 8–12 · 2022

A school trip challenges Ellen's view of friendship and identity.

Batcat

Ages 6–9 · 2023

A lonely creature seeks a spell to banish a ghost, discovering their unique identity along the way.

Skating on Mars

Ages 8–12 · 2023

A young skater faces identity challenges on and off the ice.

Final Season
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Final Season

Ages 8–12 · 2021

A young quarterback must choose between his passion for football and his father's health battle.

The Beautiful Something Else

Ages 8–12 · 2023

Sparrow must confront their true identity while navigating a world of change and uncertainty.

Hazel Bly and the Deep Blue Sea
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Hazel Bly and the Deep Blue Sea

Ages 8–12 · 2021

A scarred girl seeks healing in a town where magic and myth blur reality.

How to Become a Planet

Ages 9–12 · 2021

Pluto's summer of self-discovery challenges her to redefine normal amidst depression and family pressures.

Sir Callie and the Champions of Helston
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Sir Callie and the Champions of Helston

Ages 8–12 · 2022

A nonbinary knight battles prejudice and ancient threats to save their kingdom.

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2022

A quest to define gender reveals diverse, honest stories across cultures and identities.

The Big Time

Ages 8–12 · 2010

A football prodigy's world shifts when a stranger claims to be his father.

Ana on the Edge

Ages 9–12 · 2020

A nonbinary skater must choose between truth and success on the ice.

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