“Neither of the two men, at these times, showed the least hostility toward me, and everything went so smoothly, so amiably, that I had an absurd impression of being ‘one of the family.‘”
″‘I hit him, sir,’ said Jurgis.
‘Say ‘your Honor,″ said the officer, pinching his arm hard.
‘Your Honor,’ said Jurgis, obediently.
‘You tried to choke him?’
‘Yes, sir, your Honor.’
‘Ever been arrested before?’
‘No, sir, your Honor.’
‘What have you to say for yourself?’
Jurgis hesitated. What had he to say? In two years and a half he had learned to speak English for practical purposes, but these had never included the statement that some one had intimidated and seduced his wife.”
“I ask you not to judge me for my weakness. The only way I can endure is to be in a place where I will never see you, never be haunted by the possibility of seeing you with him. I need to be somewhere where sheer necessity forces you from my thoughts minute by minute, hour by hour, I cannot do that here.”
“we judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behavior. This is why, as we’ll discuss later, one of the fastest ways to restore trust is to make and keep commitments—even very small commitments—to ourselves and to others.”