It's Okay To Be Different
Todd Parr’s plainspoken classic: it is okay to need help, to be a different color, and to be you.
Being different is rarely an abstract idea to a child. It is the lunch nobody else packed, the laugh that comes out too loud, the body that gets stared at, the crayon whose label does not match the color inside. Children’s books put that feeling on the page as a patchwork elephant painting himself gray, a utensil that is neither spoon nor fork, a punctuation mark flattening himself into a period, or a fifth-grader whose face makes the hallway go quiet — and the best of them refuse the cheap comfort of pretending difference was never noticed.
Drawing from Bookroo’s collection of 296 books about being different, our editors chose stories that take standing out seriously: the board books that name oddness without apology, the picture books for the year classmates start sorting who matches and who doesn’t, and the middle-grade novels for readers living with a difference other people will not stop commenting on. Start with our fixed shortlist of 15 favorites, then browse by age.
Todd Parr’s plainspoken classic: it is okay to need help, to be a different color, and to be you.
A patchwork elephant paints himself ordinary gray, then discovers he preferred the colors.
A loudly dressed penguin keeps being told he is odd — until odd is exactly what the colony needs.
A chameleon who wants one permanent color learns that staying the same is harder than it looks.
Neither spoon nor fork, a kitchen utensil waits for a meal that finally needs exactly what he is.
Raised among narwhals, a little unicorn finally meets someone who looks like him — and has to choose.
Justice Sonia Sotomayor gathers kids with different abilities and invites the rest of us to just ask.
A colorful dog leaves a gray city to find her people, then discovers home was never the problem.
A seagull drops orange paint on Mr. Plumbean’s roof, and he decides the whole house should match the mess.
A punctuation mark spends his childhood among periods, trying hard to be a small quiet dot.
Auggie Pullman’s picture-book companion: a boy with an extraordinary face reminds us we are all wonders.
Auggie Pullman starts school with a facial difference, and the hallway becomes a test for everyone else.
Georgie Bishop has dwarfism, a new baby sibling on the way, and a world that will not stop staring.
Sturdy first stories about patchwork elephants, odd penguins, and the joy of not matching the herd — ages 0–3.
Discover animals in unexpected colors and patterns.
Discover the beauty in every family's unique form and strength.
A boy and robot face a puzzling shutdown. Can they find a fix?
Three chicks defy farm expectations, proving they're more than just cute.
Discover the universal bond that unites children worldwide.
A girl discovers her unique traits while celebrating family connections.
Dive into the sea with Little Fish and discover his favorite friend.
Celebrate the unique and shared traits that make every child special.
A girl orders a unicorn, but what arrives isn't what she expected.
Can four different girls unite for a dance recital success?
Fast Jaguar and slow Sloth discover the value of each other's pace.
Match crowns to princesses and discover a surprise.
Read-alouds for the child who stands out, gets mislabeled, or wonders why nobody else is quite like them — ages 3–8.
One mouse's unique path saves the day from a prowling cat.
A boy who has been flat since a bulletin board fell on him tries out for a baseball team.
A flat boy helps a baker come up with a new idea to save his business.
A shy cat must sing in front of his parents on Parents' Night, despite his fear of being embarrassed.
Discover how all creatures, from mammals to millipedes, are connected in this rhyming animal adventure.
A girl wakes up with stripes and struggles to cope with the reactions of those around her
Sadie's prized shoe is lost. How will she cope with just one?
A cow claims to meet a dragon, leading her sisters on a surprising adventure.
A spoon struggles with feelings of inadequacy and jealousy towards his friends until he realizes his own unique qualities.
A star sibling faces a new rival. Can she share the spotlight?
Can Maurice, a polite beast, survive a school for the brutish?
A book-loving starling must save his flock from a hurricane.
Longer stories about visible differences, new schools, and the hard work of being yourself when everyone is watching — ages 6–12.
A century-old doll seeks adventure and mystery with new neighbors.
Jasmine defies tradition to pound mochi before her sister. Can she succeed?
Isabella navigates a divided family and racial identity, facing a life-altering encounter with police.
A young girl confronts prejudice and fear as the Klan resurfaces in her town.
Two friends discover the magic of seeing the world through each other's eyes.
A creature dons a wolf suit to blend in, but discovers not all is as it seems in the forest.
Rivals clash over ballet and soccer, but a mishap might unite them.
A young girl named Heidi Heckelbeck gets glasses to improve her eyesight, but things don't go as planned, and she must navigate the challenges of wearing glasses and being different from her peers.
Nine kids navigate identity and allyship, supporting each other through challenges in a diverse community.
A young girl juggles school and secret zombie hunting duties, facing undeadly consequences if she fails.
A boy's prank lands him on a planet where creativity reigns. Can he embrace the chaos?
A sloth named Ernesto sets out on a journey to see every piece of the sky, meeting various creatures and having exciting adventures along the way