Rissy No Kissies

Written by Katey Howes · Illustrated by Jess Engle

A lovebird challenges norms by refusing kisses, redefining how to show care.

4.5/7 Bookroo expert·4.3/5 Goodreads · 617 ratings

32 pages· 508 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud· 630L

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Bookroo's summary

Rissy, a lovebird, faces confusion and concern from friends and family because she dislikes kisses. As she navigates their reactions, Rissy must find a way to express that affection can be shown in many ways. Her journey highlights the importance of body autonomy and consent, raising questions about societal norms and personal boundaries. Can Rissy teach those around her that there's no single way to show love?

From the publisher

A lovebird who doesn’t like kisses? Rissy’s friends and family wonder if she’s sick, confused, or rude. But kisses make Rissy uncomfortable. Can one little lovebird show everyone that there’s no one right way to show you care? Rissy No Kissies carries the message that your body and your heart are yours, and you choose how to share. A note at the end provides further information for kids, parents, and educators about body autonomy, consent, and different ways to show affection.

At a glance

Format: Hardcover
Pages: 32
Words: 508
Reading age: 3–6
Audience: Picture
Lexile: 630L

Themes & topics

Books about consent Books about birds Books about feelings and emotions Books about kisses Books about individuality

What readers & critics say

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4.5

“If you're looking for a book to share with children (as well as fellow caregivers) that presents consent and bodily autonomy in a child-friendly and approachable way, this one is fantastic! When one little lovebird emphatically insists she doesn't want kisses, her family and friends think she is in turns rude, mean, sick, etc., until her mom helps her discover the language and courage to speak up about how she prefers to feel love.”

Marmee

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