The Kind of Friends We Used to Be

By Frances O’Roark Dowell

Book #2 in the Secret Language of Girls series

Two friends struggle to reconnect as their interests and identities diverge.

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240 pages· 40,314 words· Est. 5.5 hour read

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Kate and Marylin, once inseparable, now face a friendship on the brink. As Marylin dives into cheerleading and student government, Kate dreams of music and rebellion. Can they bridge their growing differences, or will new friendships pull them further apart? Discover the challenges of middle-school alliances and the courage it takes to stay true to oneself.

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Kate and Marylin are best friends forever…. Well, except for last year when they weren’t friends anymore…. And except for this year when they both want to be friends again, but just don’t know how. But the thing is, even as they are trying to fix their broken friendship, they are becoming more and more unalike. And that’s becoming harder and harder to deal with. Well, it would be a lot easier if Kate would just take some of Marylin’s fashion advice. Ballet flats would look so much better than those big black combat boots. Feminine. But Kate doesn’t want to be feminine. She wants to learn guitar and write her own songs; she wants to be the exact opposite of the middle-school cheerleaders. And maybe if Marylin would just stick up for herself and not get bullied by Mazie (the Meanest Cheerleader Ever) into judging anyone who’s the least bit different, Marylin and Kate could be real friends again. Funny, realistic, and incredibly insightful, Edgar Award-winning novelist Frances O’Roark Dowell explores the shifting terrain of middle-school friendship in the companion book to the well-loved The Secret Language of Girls.

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