The Name I Call Myself

By Cathryn John (Illustrator)

Ari's journey to self-acceptance defies expectations and challenges identity norms.

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40 pages· 474 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud

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Bookroo's summary

Ari, once called Edward, embarks on a heartfelt journey of self-discovery, challenging societal norms and familial expectations. From childhood dreams of princesses to teenage struggles with identity, Ari faces a world that insists on defining them. As they navigate the complexities of gender identity, Ari's story unfolds with poignant moments of longing and resilience. Will Ari find the courage to embrace their true self amidst the pressures to conform? This touching tale of transformation and acceptance invites readers to witness a profound journey toward authenticity and love.

From the publisher

Meet Ari, a young person who doesn’t like to be called by their birth name Edward: “When I think of the name Edward, I imagine old kings who snore a lot.” Throughout this beautiful and engaging picture book, we watch Ari grow up before our very eyes as they navigate the ins and outs of their gender identity; we see how, as a child, they prefer dolls and princess movies, and want to grow out their hair, though their father insists on cutting it short, “because that’s what boys look like.” At nine, they play hockey but wish they could try on their mother’s dresses; at fifteen, they shave their face, hoping to have smooth skin like girls. At sixteen, they want to run away, especially from their father who insists, “You’re a boy, so you have to act like one.” Who will Ari become? Moving from age six to adolescence, The Name I Call Myself touchingly depicts Edward’s tender, solitary gender journey to Ari: a new life distinguished and made meaningful by self-acceptance and unconditional love. Ages 5 to 12.

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