Books About Sex And Gender · 251 titles considered

The Best Sex And Gender Books for Kids

By the Bookroo Editors

Looking for excellent children's books about sex and gender? This collection brings together Bookroo's highest-rated and most useful picks in one place.

Start with our editorial favorites, then browse recommendations organized by reading stage to find the right book for your reader.

The Shortlist

Our 10 Favorite Books About Sex And Gender

Furia
Sale price
$1797
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 2020

Furia

By Yamile Saied Méndez

A young soccer star must defy family expectations to chase her dreams and navigate a complicated love.

Americas Honor (2021)
368 pages· 74,369 words· Est. 7 hour read
4.1 Goodreads · 15,686 ratings
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Hardcover
Summary: In Rosario, Argentina, Camila Hassan leads a double life. At home, she's a dutiful daughter under her father's strict rule. On the soccer field, she's La Furia, a rising star. When her team qualifies for a major tournament, Camila faces a dilemma: pursue her dreams or adhere to her family's expectations. Complicating matters, her former love, now an international soccer sensation, returns. As Camila battles for her future, she must confront secrets and decide if love or ambition will guide her path. Will she break free and claim her destiny, or will her dreams remain out of reach?
Felix Ever After
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$1797
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 2020

Felix Ever After

By Kacen Callender

A teen's revenge plan leads to unexpected love and self-discovery.

Stonewall Book Award – Children's & Young Adult Literature Honor (2021)
368 pages· 85,209 words· Est. 8 hour read
4.2 Goodreads · 67,817 ratings
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Hardcover
Summary: Felix, a transgender teen, seeks revenge on an anonymous bully who exposed his past. As he navigates a complex love triangle, Felix embarks on a journey of self-discovery, questioning his identity and redefining his self-worth. Will he find the love he deserves, or will his plan backfire, leaving him more vulnerable than ever? Dive into a story of identity, love, and the courage to embrace oneself.
Drum Roll, Please
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$1697
Chapter Book · Ages 8–12 · 2018

Drum Roll, Please

By Lisa Jenn Bigelow

A shy drummer faces friendship shifts, family changes, and unexpected love at summer camp.

320 pages· 63,618 words· Est. 9 hour read
4.2 Goodreads · 2,005 ratings
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Hardcover
Summary: Melly, a shy drummer, finds solace in music at Camp Rockaway. As her parents split and her best friend drifts away, she unexpectedly falls for another girl. Can Melly find her rhythm amidst the chaos and embrace her true self? Discover if she can turn the noise in her heart into a powerful beat.
Princess Princess Ever After
Graphic Nov.
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$1248
Chapter Book · Ages 8–12 · 2014

Princess Princess Ever After

By K. O'Neill

Two princesses unite to defeat a jealous sorceress threatening their kingdom.

53 pages· 1,776 words· Est. 20 min read
4.0 Goodreads · 23,752 ratings
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Hardcover
Summary: When Princess Amira rescues Princess Sadie from a tower, they form an unexpected bond. Together, they must confront a jealous sorceress determined to eliminate Sadie. As they journey across the kingdom, their friendship deepens, revealing strengths they never knew they had. Can they overcome their greatest foe and discover what 'happily ever after' truly means? Join Amira and Sadie on a magical adventure filled with bravery, friendship, and the quest for a shared destiny.
Annie on My Mind
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$574
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 1982

Annie on My Mind

By Nancy Garden

A secret love tests Liza's honesty and courage.

234 pages· 60,151 words· Est. 5.5 hour read
4.0 Goodreads · 57,063 ratings
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Mass Market Paperback
Summary: Liza's world turns upside down when she falls for Annie, a love that brings joy and confusion. As her mother demands the truth about their relationship, Liza faces a dilemma: protect her heart or reveal her secret. With emotions running high, Liza must navigate the complexities of love and honesty, knowing that one wrong move could change everything. Will she find the courage to be true to herself, or will fear keep her silent?
Every Day
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$1797
Chapter Book · Ages 12–18 · 2012

Every Day

By David Levithan · Book #1 in the Every Day series

A wakes up in a new body daily, but love for one girl defies all rules.

322 pages· 74,593 words· Est. 7 hour read
3.9 Goodreads · 246,460 ratings
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Hardcover
Summary: Every day, A inhabits a different body, living a new life. Yet, A's heart remains constant, in love with Rhiannon. When A meets her as Justin, everything changes. Can love endure when identity shifts daily? As A and Rhiannon navigate this extraordinary challenge, they must confront the question: is love possible when the person you love is never the same? Dive into a world where the boundaries of identity and affection are tested, and discover if love can truly transcend the physical form.
The Mermaid, the Witch, and the Sea
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$1797
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 2020

The Mermaid, the Witch, and the Sea

By Maggie Tokuda-Hall

A pirate and a lady defy fate and captors on the high seas.

360 pages
3.8 Goodreads · 12,872 ratings
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Hardcover
Summary: Florian, a cunning pirate, and Lady Evelyn, a rebellious noble, find unexpected love aboard a ship where danger lurks. As captives of a treacherous crew, they must defy their oppressors and reclaim their destinies. Amidst magic, betrayal, and mythical creatures, can they chart a course to freedom and love, or will the forces of colonialism and control tear them apart? Their daring escape could change everything, but at what cost?
Forever...
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$1139
Chapter Book · Ages 14–18 · 1975

Forever...

By Judy Blume

Katherine questions love's permanence when summer brings new feelings.

240 pages· 38,379 words· Est. 3.5 hour read
3.6 Goodreads · 69,028 ratings
$11.99Save 5%
Paperback
Summary: Katherine believes her love with Michael is eternal, especially after they share an intimate moment. But a summer apart stirs unexpected emotions for someone new. As Katherine grapples with her heart's shifting desires, she must confront what 'forever' truly means. Is her bond with Michael the love of a lifetime, or just the start of her journey in love? This exploration of first love and its complexities will leave you questioning the nature of true connection.
A Separate Peace
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$1697
Chapter Book · Ages 12–18 · 1959

A Separate Peace

By John Knowles

Two friends' bond shatters, mirroring a world at war.

206 pages· 56,787 words· Est. 5.5 hour read
3.6 Goodreads · 236,265 ratings
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Paperback
Summary: At a New England boarding school during WWII, Gene, a reserved intellectual, and Phineas, a daring athlete, navigate a summer that tests their friendship. As tensions rise, innocence fades, echoing the global conflict. What unfolds between them changes everything, leaving readers questioning loyalty and the loss of youth.
The Tide
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$1697
Picture Book · Ages 4–7 · 2019

The Tide

By Clare Helen Walsh, Ashling Lindsay (Illustrator)

A girl navigates her grandpa's fading memories at the beach.

32 pages
6.0/7 Bookroo·4.1/5 Goodreads · 318 ratings
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Hardcover
Summary: A young girl cherishes beach days with her grandpa, building sandcastles and sharing laughter. Yet, his memories ebb and flow like the tide, sometimes vibrant, sometimes distant. As she grapples with his forgetfulness, she learns how love and understanding can help him live well despite dementia. Can their bond withstand the challenges of fading memories?
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Sex And Gender Board Books for Babies & Toddlers

Sturdy, inviting books about sex and gender for the youngest readers and listeners.

I Love You, Daddy
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$899

I Love You, Daddy

Ages 0–3 · 2011

Discover the tender bond between father and child in a heartwarming tale of love and security.

Why I Love My Daddy
Series
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$699

Why I Love My Daddy

Ages 3–7 · 2006

Discover why daddies are adored through children's heartfelt words and animal illustrations.

Being You
Series
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$899

Being You

Ages 3–6 · 2021

Start vital conversations on gender with young children through engaging stories and imagery.

I Love My Daddy
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$799

I Love My Daddy

Ages 0–3 · 2011

A toddler's view of love between father and child unfolds joyfully.

Is That Your Dad?
Series
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$799

Is That Your Dad?

Ages 0–3 · 2019

Froggy embarks on a quest to discover his true father, eliminating unlikely candidates along the way.

My Dad Is Amazing
Series
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$899

My Dad Is Amazing

Ages 1–3 · 2018

Celebrate dads with a whimsical tribute to their amazing qualities and a special nod to their little fans.

The Grandpa Book
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$899

The Grandpa Book

Ages 2–5 · 2011

Celebrate the unique bond between grandfathers and grandchildren with vibrant illustrations and heartwarming tales.

Duck, Duck, Dad?
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$899

Duck, Duck, Dad?

Ages 0–4 · 2023

A dog becomes an unexpected dad to a flock of ducklings. Chaos ensues!

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Sex And Gender Picture Books

Illustrated read-alouds about sex and gender for preschool and elementary-age readers.

The Remember Balloons
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$1999

The Remember Balloons

Ages 5–9 · 2018

A boy struggles to preserve his grandpa's fading memories as they drift away.

Grandpa Green
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$1699

Grandpa Green

Ages 5–8 · 2011

A great-grandfather's life story from childhood to old age.

111 Trees
#22 in Series
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$1899

111 Trees

Ages 5–8 · 2020

A boy transforms his village by planting trees for every girl's birth, challenging tradition and sparking change.

Ballerino Nate
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$1699

Ballerino Nate

Ages 4–7 · 2006

A boy defies stereotypes to pursue his ballet dreams.

You and Me, Me and You
Series
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$1299

You and Me, Me and You

Ages 3–6 · 2017

Celebrate the timeless bond between father and child through life's shared moments.

Dad By My Side
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$1799

Dad By My Side

Ages 4–8 · 2018

Discover the magic of a father's love through enchanting illustrations.

My Daddy Is a Cowboy
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$1899

My Daddy Is a Cowboy

Ages 4–8 · 2024

A girl discovers her inner cowboy during a dawn ride with her father.

My Shadow Is Pink
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$1699

My Shadow Is Pink

Ages 5–7 · 2020

A boy discovers the courage to embrace his unique shadow.

My Moms Love Me
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My Moms Love Me

Ages 3–5 · 2022

Two moms and their child share a day filled with love and joy.

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Sex And Gender Chapter Books & Middle Grade

Longer stories about sex and gender for developing and independent readers.

Bea Is for Blended
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$799

Bea Is for Blended

Ages 8–12 · 2021

A girl fights for an all-girls soccer team amidst family changes.

Ellen Outside the Lines
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$899

Ellen Outside the Lines

Ages 8–12 · 2022

A school trip challenges Ellen's view of friendship and identity.

Batcat
#1 in Series
Graphic Nov.
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$1399

Batcat

Ages 6–9 · 2023

A lonely creature seeks a spell to banish a ghost, discovering their unique identity along the way.

Skating on Mars
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$1799

Skating on Mars

Ages 8–12 · 2023

A young skater faces identity challenges on and off the ice.

Final Season
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$999

Final Season

Ages 8–12 · 2021

A young quarterback must choose between his passion for football and his father's health battle.

The Beautiful Something Else
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$1799

The Beautiful Something Else

Ages 8–12 · 2023

Sparrow must confront their true identity while navigating a world of change and uncertainty.

How to Become a Planet
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$795

How to Become a Planet

Ages 9–12 · 2021

Pluto's summer of self-discovery challenges her to redefine normal amidst depression and family pressures.

Fine
Graphic Nov.
Sale price
$2100

Fine

2022

A quest to define gender reveals diverse, honest stories across cultures and identities.

The Big Time
#4 in Series
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$1699

The Big Time

Ages 8–12 · 2010

A football prodigy's world shifts when a stranger claims to be his father.

Ana on the Edge
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$1699

Ana on the Edge

Ages 9–12 · 2020

A nonbinary skater must choose between truth and success on the ice.

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