Books About Feelings for Kids · 91 titles considered

The Best Emotional Intelligence Books for Kids

By the Bookroo Editors
Updated July 25, 2026

Nobody is born knowing that the hot, tight thing in their chest is called angry, or that it will pass. A four-year-old flat on the kitchen floor is not being difficult; they are running a brand-new system with no vocabulary and no brakes. Emotional intelligence is the unglamorous work of installing both — putting a name to the feeling, noticing where it sits in the body, learning that a mood grows if you ignore it and shrinks the moment you say it out loud to somebody. Picture books turn out to be uncannily good at this, because a feeling is far easier to hold once an illustrator has drawn it as a color, a monster, a drift of leaves, or a worry the size of a house.

Drawing from Bookroo’s collection of 91 books about feelings and emotional skills, our editors chose 15 that do real work rather than simply announcing that all feelings are okay: a vocabulary book, a sorting tool, an anger classic, a grumpy morning nobody is allowed to fix, and a set of strategies for the moment after the naming. Start with the shortlist, then use the age shelves below — board books for the toddler years, when naming a feeling is the entire curriculum, and picture books and early chapter books for the ages when a child starts wanting something to actually do about it.

Grumpy Monkey
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The Rabbit Listened
The Shortlist

Our 15 Favorite Books About Big Feelings

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Picture Book · Ages 3–6 · 2018

Ruby Finds a Worry

By Tom Percival · Big Bright Feelings series

A small worry turns up one morning and keeps getting bigger, until it is the only thing she can see.

32 pages· 429 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud
Best for
A child carrying something they haven’t told anyone about
6.0/7 Bookroo·4.5/5 Goodreads · 3,095 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 3–6 · 2012

The Color Monster

All the feelings have gotten tangled into one grey knot, and somebody offers to help sort them into jars.

40 pages· 320 words· Est. 3 min read-aloud
Best for
Preschoolers learning that feelings come in separate pieces
4.4/5 Goodreads · 2,609 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 4–8

When Sophie Gets Angry - Really, Really Angry...

Somebody grabs her toy without asking, the anger arrives all at once, and the only thing to do is run until the world stops roaring.

Caldecott Honor (2000)Charlotte Zolotow Award (2000)Jane Addams Children's Book Honor (2000)
40 pages· 170 words· Est. 2 min read-aloud
Best for
Naming the moment anger takes over — and what comes after it
4.5/7 Bookroo·3.9/5 Goodreads · 7,750 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 3–7 · 2018

Grumpy Monkey

He wakes up in a foul mood on a perfectly nice morning, and every animal in the jungle has a suggestion for fixing it.

32 pages· 478 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud
Best for
The child who is being told to cheer up
4.8/7 Bookroo·4.4/5 Goodreads · 7,898 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 4–8 · 2018

The Rabbit Listened

By Cori Doerffeld (Author/Illustrator), Cori Doerrfeld (Author/Illustrator)

A tower of blocks is knocked flat, and one animal after another turns up to explain exactly how to feel about it.

32 pages· 275 words· Est. 3 min read-aloud
Best for
Teaching a child what to do when somebody else is hurting
5.6/7 Bookroo·4.6/5 Goodreads · 9,638 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 4–8 · 2019

The Boy with Big, Big Feelings

By Britney Winn Lee, Jacob Souva (Illustrator) · Book #1 in the The Big, Big series

A boy struggles to understand and manage his big emotions until he finds friendship and acceptance with others who feel the same way.

32 pages· 491 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud
Best for
The child who feels everything harder than everyone else
4.6/7 Bookroo·4.3/5 Goodreads · 931 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 4–7 · 2019

Why Do We Cry?

By Fran Pintadera, Ana Sender (Illustrator)

A boy asks his mother a plain question about tears, and gets a whole book of answers back.

34 pages· 332 words· Est. 3 min read-aloud
Best for
A child who has been told to stop crying
4.9/7 Bookroo·4.4/5 Goodreads · 943 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 4–8 · 2017

My Heart

A heart can be a window, a slide, a puddle, or a fence — and some days you get to choose which one it is.

32 pages· 125 words· Est. 1 min read-aloud
Best for
Quiet bedtime reading about opening back up
5.5/7 Bookroo·4.3/5 Goodreads · 2,619 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 4–8 · 1998

Today I Feel Silly

A different mood every day of the week — silly, cranky, excited, gloomy — and not one of them sticks around.

40 pages· 510 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud
Best for
Convincing a child that a bad mood is temporary
4.8/7 Bookroo·4.2/5 Goodreads · 4,749 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 3–9 · 2016

Even Superheroes Have Bad Days

Superheroes get sad, left out, and furious too, and then they have to decide what to do with all that power.

34 pages· 403 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud
Best for
Kids who need somewhere to put the anger, not just a word for it
5.5/7 Bookroo·3.9/5 Goodreads · 1,105 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 2–3 · 1999

How Are You Peeling?

Peppers, oranges, and grapefruits photographed mid-expression, daring the reader to say what each one is feeling.

48 pages· 178 words· Est. 2 min read-aloud
Best for
Practicing how to read a face
4.1/5 Goodreads · 1,851 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 2–4 · 2014

In My Heart

One feeling per page, each one given a size and a shape — happy is wide, sad is heavy, brave beats like a drum.

28 pages· 416 words· Est. 4 min read-aloud
Best for
Toddlers learning where a feeling actually sits
5.3/7 Bookroo·4.5/5 Goodreads · 2,877 ratings
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Board Book · Ages 2–4 · 2014

Little Monkey Calms Down

After a full-scale meltdown, a small monkey heads to his room and works back through the steps that bring the calm.

22 pages· 67 words· Est. 1 min read-aloud
Best for
Rehearsing a calm-down routine before the next tantrum
4.2/5 Goodreads · 1,650 ratings
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Picture Book · Ages 6–9 · 1972

Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

Gum in the hair before breakfast, no dessert, lima beans for dinner, and not one single thing going right all day.

32 pages· 741 words· Est. 6 min read-aloud
Best for
The day when nothing has worked and nobody wants a lesson
6.3/7 Bookroo·4.2/5 Goodreads · 188,714 ratings
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Chapter Book · Ages 6–9 · 2016

What Are You Glad About? What Are You Mad About?

By Judith Viorst, Lee White (Illustrator)

Poems about the entire roller coaster — school, siblings, dread, hope, and days that taste like ice cream and cake.

112 pages
Best for
Six- to nine-year-olds who have outgrown feelings picture books
5.8/7 Bookroo·3.9/5 Goodreads · 185 ratings
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Feelings Board Books for Babies & Toddlers

First words for happy, mad, and sad, plus sturdy calm-down routines worth rehearsing long before the next tantrum arrives. Ages 0–3.

Emma

Ages 2–4 · 2015

A young matchmaker stirs emotions in her village.

The Feelings Book

Ages 2–4 · 2005

Explore the colorful world of emotions and discover the joy of expressing every feeling.

Doggie Gets Scared

Ages 2–4 · 2020

A toy doggie's fears test Baby's courage when Doggie goes missing.

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Mad, Mad, MAD

Ages 2–4 · 2020

Baby's tantrum spirals. Can new tricks bring back the happy?

In My Heart

Ages 2–4 · 2020

A mother reassures her child that love bridges their daily separation.

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$1295

Happy Grumpy Loved

Ages 0–3 · 2018

Discover emotions and build vocabulary with playful exploration.

I Am!

Ages 2–4 · 2020

Empower kids with affirmations to boost confidence and mindfulness.

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$799

Anne's Feelings

Ages 0–3 · 2019

Explore Anne's emotions through iconic scenes and tactile art.

Happy Puppy, Angry Tiger

Ages 1–3 · 2021

Discover emotions with animal friends and build empathy through playful storytelling.

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Picture Books About Big Feelings & Self-Regulation

Read-alouds that name the feeling, sit with it, and then show a way through — anger, worry, tears, sulks, and the moods that snowball when nobody sweeps them up. Ages 3–8.

Mac and Cheese

Ages 4–6 · 2010

A playful cat loses his hat. Will his lazy friend help retrieve it?

Be Kind

Ages 5–18 · 2019

Discover 125 ways kids can spread kindness in a screen-dominated world.

A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood

Ages 6–8 · 2019

Discover timeless songs that celebrate kindness and self-love, cherished by generations.

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$1699

How to Cheer Up Dad

Ages 3–5 · 2014

Little Jumbo tries to cheer up his dad after a series of mishaps. Can he succeed?

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I Am Human

Ages 4–8 · 2018

A young person navigates the complexities of being human.

I'm Happy-Sad Today

Ages 3–8 · 2019

Navigate the whirlwind of emotions and discover that all feelings are okay.

Listening to My Body

Ages 4–10 · 2019

Guide children to name feelings and sensations, fostering mindfulness and emotional resilience.

The Hugasaurus

Ages 4–6 · 2022

Can a little dinosaur mend friendships with kindness?

Facts vs. Opinions vs. Robots

Ages 5–8 · 2020

Can you tell facts from opinions? Discover the difference with robots.

Wilma Jean the Worry Machine

Ages 5–8 · 2012

A child learns to manage anxiety with creative strategies and a worry hat.

Speak Up
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Speak Up

Ages 4–7 · 2020

One voice can change the world. Discover how kids make a difference.

Are You Ready to Play Outside?

Ages 4–8 · 2008

Can a rainy day spoil Piggie's outdoor fun with Gerald?

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Early Chapter Books About Handling Feelings

For readers who have outgrown the feelings shelf but still need the words — poems, first chapter books, and school stories where the problem is an emotion rather than a villain. Ages 5–10.

Breathe Like a Bear

Ages 4–8 · 2017

Discover simple mindfulness exercises to help kids find calm and focus anywhere.

The Crazy Cousins

Ages 6–8 · 2012

A boy struggles to cope with a visit from his noisy and messy cousins, but eventually finds a way to have fun with them

Heidi Heckelbeck and the Big Mix-Up

Ages 7–9 · 2016

A young girl navigates friendships and misunderstandings in her second-grade class

A Children's Book About Complaining

Ages 8–12 · 1982

Learn when to complain and when to stay positive.

Eva and the New Teacher

Ages 5–7 · 2025

A new teacher challenges students to create an imaginative art project.

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Weather Together

Ages 4–8 · 2023

Nimbus faces a stormy mood she can't hide. Can friendship weather the storm?

Riley's New World (Disney/Pixar Inside Out 2)

Ages 6–8 · 2024

Riley's mind is a whirlwind of new emotions. What will she discover inside?

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