author

Oscar Wilde Quotes

100+ of the best book quotes from Oscar Wilde
01
“You know how a voice can stir one. Your voice and the voice of Sibyl Vane are two things that I shall never forget. When I close my eyes, I hear them, and each of them says something different. I don’t know which to follow.”
02
“Yes, he was certainly wonderfully handsome, with his finely curved scarlet lips, his frank blue eyes, his crisp gold hair. There was something in his face that made one trust him at once. All the candour of youth was there, as well as all youth’s passionate purity. One felt that he had kept himself unspotted from the world. No wonder Basil Hallward worshipped him.”
03
“And beauty is a form of genius -- is higher, indeed, than genius, as it needs no explanation. It is of the great facts of the world, like sunlight, or spring-time, or the reflection in dark waters of that silver shell we call the moon. It cannot be questioned. It has its divine right of sovereignty. It makes princes of those who have it. You smile? Ah! when you have lost it you won’t smile...”
04
“People say sometimes that beauty is only superficial. That may be so, but at least it is not so superficial as thought is. To me, beauty is the wonder of wonders. It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances.”
05
“Ah! realize your youth while you have it. Don’t squander the gold of your days, listening to the tedious, trying to improve the hopeless failure, or giving away your life to the ignorant, the common, and the vulgar. These are the sickly aims, the false ideals, of our age. Live! Live the wonderful life that is in you! Let nothing be lost upon you. Be always searching for new sensations. Be afraid of nothing. . . . A new Hedonism -- that is what our century wants. You might be its visible symbol.”
06
“I know, now, that when one loses one’s good looks, whatever they may be, one loses everything. Your picture has taught me that. Lord Henry Wotton is perfectly right. Youth is the only thing worth having. When I find that I am growing old, I shall kill myself.”
07
“I am jealous of everything whose beauty does not die. I am jealous of the portrait you have painted of me. Why should it keep what I must lose? Every moment that passes takes something from me and gives something to it. Oh, if it were only the other way! If the picture could change, and I could be always what I am now! Why did you paint it? It will mock me some day -- mock me horribly!”
08
“If I had read all this in a book, Harry, I think I would have wept over it. Somehow, now that it has happened actually, and to me, it seems far too wonderful for tears.”
09
“One should absorb the colour of life, but one should never remember its details. Details are always vulgar.”
10
“You know we poor artists have to show ourselves in society from time to time, just to remind the public that we are not savages. With an evening coat and a white tie, as you told me once, anybody, even a stock-broker, can gain a reputation for being civilized.”
11
“An artist should create beautiful things, but should put nothing of his own life into them. We live in an age when men treat art as if it were meant to be a form of autobiography. We have lost the abstract sense of beauty.”
12
“I like persons better than principles, and I like persons with no principles better than anything else in the world.”
13
“Sibyl? Oh, she was so shy and so gentle. There is something of a child about her. Her eyes opened wide in exquisite wonder when I told her what I thought of her performance, and she seemed quite unconscious of her power.”
14
″‘Each of us has heaven and hell in him, Basil,’ cried Dorian with a wild gesture of despair.”
15
“He was prisoned in thought. Memory, like a horrible malady, was eating his soul away.”
16
“You are a wonderful creation. You know more than you think you know, just as you know less than you want to know.”
17
“Lord Henry went out to the garden and found Dorian Gray burying his face in the great cool lilac-blossoms, feverishly drinking in their perfume as if it had been wine. He came close to him and put his hand upon his shoulder. ‘You are quite right to do that,’ he murmured. ‘Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.‘”
18
“I believe that if one man were to live out his life fully and completely, were to give form to every feeling, expression to every thought, reality to every dream -- I believe that the world would gain such a fresh impulse of joy that we would forget all the maladies of mediaevalism, and return to the Hellenic ideal -- to something finer, richer than the Hellenic ideal, it may be.”
19
“I make a great difference between people. I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their good intellects. A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies. I have not got one who is a fool. They are all men of some intellectual power, and consequently they all appreciate me. Is that very vain of me? I think it is rather vain.”
20
“How much that strange confession explained to him! The painter’s absurd fits of jealousy, his wild devotion, his extravagant panegyrics, his curious reticences -- he understood them all now, and he felt sorry. There seemed to him to be something tragic in a friendship so coloured by romance.”
21
“I love Sibyl Vane. I want to place her on a pedestal of gold and to see the world worship the woman who is mine. What is marriage? An irrevocable vow. You mock at it for that. Ah! don’t mock. It is an irrevocable vow that I want to take. Her trust makes me faithful, her belief makes me good. When I am with her, I regret all that you have taught me. I become different from what you have known me to be. I am changed, and the mere touch of Sibyl Vane’s hand makes me forget you and all your wrong, fascinating, poisonous, delightful theories.”
22
“Pleasure is Nature’s test, her sign of approval. When we are happy, we are always good, but when we are good, we are not always happy.”
23
“Yes, we are overcharged for everything nowadays. I should fancy that the real tragedy of the poor is that they can afford nothing but self-denial. Beautiful sins, like beautiful things, are the privilege of the rich.”
24
“Then the curtain rises, and you will see the girl to whom I am going to give all my life, to whom I have given everything that is good in me.”
25
“To be good is to be in harmony with one’s self.”
26
“The past could always be annihilated. Regret, denial, or forgetfulness could do that. But the future was inevitable. There were passions in him that would find their terrible outlet, dreams that would make the shadow of their evil real.”
27
“Dorian Gray had been poisoned by a book. There were moments when he looked on evil simply as a mode through which he could realize his conception of the beautiful.”
28
“Life has everything in store for you, Dorian. There is nothing that you, with your extraordinary good looks, will not be able to do.”
29
“We live in an age that reads too much to be wise, and that thinks too much to be beautiful.”
30
“It was his beauty that had ruined him, his beauty and the youth that he had prayed for. But for those two things, his life might have been free from stain. His beauty had been to him but a mask, his youth but a mockery. What was youth at best? A green, an unripe time, a time of shallow moods, and sickly thoughts. Why had he worn its livery? Youth had spoiled him.”
31
“The books that the world calls immoral are books that show the world its own shame.”
32
“Modern morality consists in accepting the standard of one’s age. I consider that for any man of culture to accept the standard of his age is a form of the grossest immorality.”
33
“For the canons of good society are, or should be, the same as the canons of art. Form is absolutely essential to it. It should have the dignity of a ceremony, as well as its unreality, and should combine the insincere character of a romantic play with the wit and beauty that make such plays delightful to us. Is insincerity such a terrible thing? I think not. It is merely a method by which we can multiply our personalities.”
34
“The reason I will not exhibit this picture is that I am afraid that I have shown in it the secret of my own soul.”
35
“The good ended happily, and the bad unhappily. That is what Fiction means.”
36
“The very essence of romance is uncertainty.”
37
“The truth is rarely pure and never simple. Modern life would be very tedious if it were either, and modern literature a complete impossibility!”
38
“I do not approve of anything that tampers with natural ignorance. Ignorance is like a delicate exotic fruit; touch it and the bloom is gone.”
39
“To lose one parent, Mr. Worthing, may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness.”
40
“All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That is his.”
41
“And you do not seem to realize, dear Doctor, that by persistently remaining single, a man converts himself into a permanent public temptation. Men should be more careful; this very celibacy leads weaker vessels astray.”
42
“I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train.”
43
“In matters of grave importance, style, not sincerity is the vital thing.”
44
“I do not know whether there is anything peculiarly exciting in the air of this particular part of Hertfordshire, but the number of engagements that go on seems to me considerably above the proper average that statistics have laid down for our guidance.”
45
“Never speak disrespectfully of Society, Algernon. Only people who can’t get into it do that.”
46
“I never change, except in my affections.”
47
“It is a terrible thing for a man to find out suddenly that all his life he has been speaking nothing but the truth.”
48
“If I am occasionally a little over-dressed, I make up for it by being always immensely over-educated.”
49
“I hope you have not been leading a double life, pretending to be wicked and being good all the time. That would be hypocrisy.”
50
“I am sick to death of cleverness. Everybody is clever nowadays.”
51
“Oh! it is absurd to have a hard-and-fast rule about what one should read and what one shouldn’t. More than half of modern culture depends on what one shouldn’t read.”
52
“To be born, or at any rate bred, in a hand-bag, whether it had handles or not, seems to me to display a contempt for the ordinary decencies of family life that reminds one of the worst excesses of the French Revolution.”
53
“I have never met any really wicked person before. I feel rather frightened. I am so afraid he will look just like every one else.”
54
“Long engagements give people the opportunity of finding out each other’s character before marriage, which is never advisable.”
55
“I’ve now realized for the first time in my life the vital Importance of Being Earnest.”
56
“You can hardly imagine that I and Lord Bracknell would dream of allowing our only daughter - a girl brought up with the utmost care - to marry into a cloak-room, and form an alliance with a parcel?”
57
“Thirty-five is a very attractive age. London society is full of women of the very highest birth who have, of their own free choice, remained thirty-five for years.”
58
“I really don’t see what is so romantic about proposing. One may be accepted - one usually is, I believe - and then the excitement is ended. The very essence of romance is uncertainty.”
59
“What seem to us a bitter trials are often blessings in disguise.”
60
“Nowadays, with our modern mania for morality, every one has to pose as a paragon of purity, incorruptibility, and all the other seven deadly virtues – and what is the result? You all go over like ninepins - one after the other.”
61
“Lady Chiltern is a woman of the very highest principles, I am glad to say. I am a little too old now, myself, to trouble about setting a good example, but I always admire people who do.”
62
“But women who have common sense are so curiously plain, father, aren’t they?”
63
“How you women war against each other!”
64
“Well, I delight in your bad qualities. I wouldn’t have you part with one of them.”
65
“I would to God that I had been able to tell the truth . . . to live the truth. Ah! that is the great thing in life, to live the truth.”
66
“Ah, I forgot, your husband is an exception. Mine is the general rule, and nothing ages a woman so rapidly as having married the general rule.”
67
“All sins, except a sin against itself, Love should forgive.”
68
“Even you are not rich enough, Sir Robert, to buy back your past. No man is.”
69
“Oh, damn sympathy. There is a great deal too much of that sort of thing going on nowadays.”
70
“Circumstances should never alter principles!”
71
“My dear father, only people who look dull ever get into the House of Commons, and only people who are dull ever succeed there.”
72
“Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike.”
73
“Ah, nowadays people marry as often as they can, don’t they? It is most fashionable.”
74
“We have all feet of clay, women as well as men; but when we men love women, we love them knowing their weaknesses, their follies, their imperfections, love them all the more, it may be, for that reason.”
character
concepts
75
“I will love you always, because you will always be worthy of love.”
76
“It is the growth of the moral sense in women that makes marriage such a hopeless, one-sided institution.”
77
“You can forget. Men easily forget. And I forgive. That is how women help the world. I see that now.”
78
“Ah! the strength of women comes from the fact that psychology cannot explain us. […] Science can never grapple with the irrational.”
79
“She loves you, Robert. Why should she not forgive?”
80
“Politics are my only pleasure.”
81
“No one should be entirely judged by their past.”
82
“It is not the perfect, but the imperfect, who have need of love.”
83
“It is power to do good that is fine – that, and that only.”
84
“I delight in talking politics. I talk them all day long. But I can’t bear listening to them.”
85
“Besides, Gertrude, public and private life are different things. They have different laws, and move on different lines.”
86
“Sooner or later in political life one has to compromise. Every one does.”
87
“Women are not meant to judge us, but to forgive us when we need forgiveness. Pardon, not punishment, is their mission.”
88
“Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.”
89
“Leaf after leaf of the fine gold he brought to the poor, and the children’s faces grew rosier, and they laughed and played games in the street.”
90
″ ‘They mean,’ he said sadly, ′ that you must weep with me for my sins, because I have no tears, and pray with me for my soul, because I have no faith, and then, if you have always been sweet, and good, and gentle, the angel of death will have mercy on me.′ ”
91
“The eyes of the Happy Prince were filled with tears, and tears were running down his golden cheeks. His face was so beautiful in the moonlight that the little swallow was filled with pity.”
92
″ ‘Dear little swallow,’ said the Prince, ‘you tell me of marvelous things, but more marvelous than anything is the suffering of men and women. There is no mystery so great as Misery. Fly over my city, little swallow, and tell me what you see.’ ”
93
“It was his solemn duty to appear in the corridor once a week, and to gibber from the large oriel window on the first and third Wednesdays in every month, and he did not see how he could honourably escape from his obligations. It is quite true that his life had been very evil, but, upon the other hand, he was most conscientious in all things connected with the supernatural.”
94
“Yes, death. Death must be so beautiful. To lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above one’s head, and listen to silence. To have no yesterday, and no to-morrow. To forget time, to forget life, to be at peace. You can help me. You can open for me the portals of death’s house, for love is always with you, and love is stronger than death is.”
95
″ ‘I am covered with fine gold,’ said the Prince, ‘you must take it off, leaf by leaf, and give it to my poor; the living always think that gold can make them happy.’ ”
96
“And the little swallow began to think, and then he fell asleep. Thinking always made him sleepy.”
97
“When a golden girl can win Prayer from out the lips of sin, When the barren almond bears, And a little child gives away its tears, Then shall all the house be still And peace comes to Canterville.”
98
“He made me see what Life is, and what Death signifies, and why Love is stronger than both.”
99
“Virginia stepped forward, and laid on it a large cross made of white and pink almond-blossoms. As she did so, the moon came out from behind a cloud, and flooded with its silent silver the little churchyard, and from the distant copse a nightingale began to sing.”
100
“We have really everything in common with America nowadays, except, of course, language.”
101
“That’s quite absurd! You have merely to go to bed and blow out the candle. It is very difficult sometimes to keep awake, especially at church, but there is no difficulty at all about sleeping. Why, even babies know how to do that, and they are not very clever.”
102
“On reaching a small secret chamber in the left wing, he leaned up against a moonbeam to recover his breath, and began to try and realize his position. Never, in a brilliant and uninterrupted career of three hundred years, had he been so grossly insulted.”
103
“Dear Prince, I must leave you, but I will never forget you, and next spring I will bring you back two beautiful jewels in place of those you have given away.”
104
“Once in New York, you are sure to be a great success. I know lots of people here who would give a hundred thousand dollars to have a grandfather, and much more than that to have a family ghost.”
105
“My courtiers called me the Happy Prince, and happy indeed I was, if pleasure be happiness. So I lived and so I died. ”
106
″ ‘When I was alive and had a human heart,’ answered the statue, ‘I did not know what tears were, for I lived in the Palace of Sans-Souci, where sorrow is not allowed to enter.’ ”
107
″ ‘I don’t think I like boys,’ answered the Swallow. ‘Last summer, when I was staying on the river, there were two rude boys, the miller’s sons, who were always throwing stones at me.’ ”
108
″ ‘The ruby has fallen out of his sword, his eyes are gone, and he is golden no longer,’ said the Mayor in fact, ‘he is little better than a beggar.’ ”
109
The artist is the creator of beautiful things.
Source: Chapter 1, Paragraph 1
110
The critic is he who can translate into another manner or a new material his impression of beautiful things.
Source: Chapter 1, Paragraph 1
111
“Thought and language are to the artist instruments of an art. Vice and virtue are to the artist materials for an art. From the point of view of form, the type of all the arts is the art of the musician.”
Source: Chapter 1, Paragraph 6
112
All art is at once surface and symbol.
Source: Chapter 1, Paragraph 6
113
“We can forgive a man for making a useful thing as long as he does not admire it. The only excuse for making a useless thing is that one admires it intensely.”
Source: Chapter 1, Paragraph 6
114
“Whenever I have gone there, there have been either so many people that I have not been able to see the pictures, which was dreadful, or so many pictures that I have not been able to see the people, which was worse.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 5
115
What odd chaps you painters are! You do anything in the world to gain a reputation. As soon as you have one, you seem to want to throw it away.
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 7
116
It is silly of you, for there is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about.
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 7
117
Why, my dear Basil, he is a Narcissus, and you—well, of course you have an intellectual expression and all that. But beauty, real beauty, ends where an intellectual expression begins.
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 11
118
Look at the successful men in any of the learned professions. How perfectly hideous they are! Except, of course, in the Church. But then in the Church they don’t think. A bishop keeps on saying at the age of eighty what he was told to say when he was a boy of eighteen, and as a natural consequence he always looks absolutely delightful.
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 11
119
“It is better not to be different from one’s fellows.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 12
120
“If they know nothing of victory, they are at least spared the knowledge of defeat.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 12
121
“Harry,” said Basil Hallward, looking him straight in the face, “every portrait that is painted with feeling is a portrait of the artist, not of the sitter. The sitter is merely the accident, the occasion. It is not he who is revealed by the painter; it is rather the painter who, on the coloured canvas, reveals himself. The reason I will not exhibit this picture is that I am afraid that I have shown in it the secret of my own soul.
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 27
122
I knew that I had come face to face with some one whose mere personality was so fascinating that, if I allowed it to do so, it would absorb my whole nature, my whole soul, my very art itself.
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 34
123
Now, the value of an idea has nothing whatsoever to do with the sincerity of the man who expresses it.
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 53
124
“Indeed, the probabilities are that the more insincere the man is, he more purely intellectual will the idea be, as in that case it will not be coloured by either his wants, his desires, or his prejudices.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 53
125
“I sometimes think, Harry, that there are only two eras of any importance in the world’s history. The first is the appearance of a new medium for art, and the second is the appearance of a new personality for art also.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 56
126
“What the invention of oil-painting was to the Venetians, the face of Antinous was to late Greek sculpture, and the face of Dorian Gray will some day be to me.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 56
127
“Because, without intending it, I have put into it some expression of all this curious artistic idolatry, of which, of course, I have never cared to speak to him. He knows nothing about it. He shall never know anything about it. But the world might guess it, and I will not bare my soul to their shallow prying eyes. My heart shall never be put under their microscope. There is too much of myself in the thing, Harry—too much of myself!”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 60
128
Then I feel, Harry, that I have given away my whole soul to some one who treats it as if it were a flower to put in his coat, a bit of decoration to charm his vanity, an ornament for a summer’s day.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 64
129
“In the wild struggle for existence, we want to have something that endures, and so we fill our minds with rubbish and facts, in the silly hope of keeping our place.”
Source: Chapter 2, Paragraph 65
130
He becomes an echo of some one else’s music, an actor of a part that has not been written for him.
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 24
131
To realize one’s nature perfectly—that is what each of us is here for.
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 24
132
They have forgotten the highest of all duties, the duty that one owes to one’s self.
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 24
133
“They feed the hungry and clothe the beggar. But their own souls starve, and are naked.”
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 24
134
“The body sins once, and has done with its sin, for action is a mode of purification. Nothing remains then but the recollection of a pleasure, or the luxury of a regret.
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 26
135
“The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself, with desire for what its monstrous laws have made monstrous and unlawful.
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 26
136
“Always! That is a dreadful word. It makes me shudder when I hear it. Women are so fond of using it. They spoil every romance by trying to make it last for ever. It is a meaningless word, too. The only difference between a caprice and a lifelong passion is that the caprice lasts a little longer.”
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 55
137
“How sad it is! I shall grow old, and horrible, and dreadful. But this picture will remain always young. It will never be older than this particular day of June.... If it were only the other way! If it were I who was to be always young, and the picture that was to grow old! For that—for that—I would give everything! Yes, there is nothing in the whole world I would not give! I would give my soul for that!”
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 73
138
“Harry, I can’t quarrel with my two best friends at once, but between you both you have made me hate the finest piece of work I have ever done, and I will destroy it. What is it but canvas and colour? I will not let it come across our three lives and mar them.”
Source: Chapter 3, Paragraph 87
139
“American girls are as clever at concealing their parents, as English women are at concealing their past,”
Source: Chapter 4, Paragraph 21
140
“I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect.”
Source: Chapter 4, Paragraph 55
141
“There is something terribly morbid in the modern sympathy with pain. One should sympathize with the colour, the beauty, the joy of life.”
Source: Chapter 4, Paragraph 63
142
“Humanity takes itself too seriously. It is the world’s original sin. If the caveman had known how to laugh, history would have been different.”
Source: Chapter 4, Paragraph 70
143
“To get back one’s youth, one has merely to repeat one’s follies.”
Source: Chapter 4, Paragraph 76
144
“I am afraid I don’t think so, Lady Henry. I never talk during music—at least, during good music. If one hears bad music, it is one’s duty to drown it in conversation.”
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 12
145
“Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing.”
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 14
146
You filled me with a wild desire to know everything about life.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 38
147
As I lounged in the park, or strolled down Piccadilly, I used to look at every one who passed me and wonder, with a mad curiosity, what sort of lives they led.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 38
148
I felt that this grey monstrous London of ours, with its myriads of people, its sordid sinners, and its splendid sins, as you once phrased it, must have something in store for me.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 38
149
The mere danger gave me a sense of delight.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 38
150
A grande passion is the privilege of people who have nothing to do.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 39
151
Faithfulness is to the emotional life what consistency is to the life of the intellect—simply a confession of failure.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 43
152
She was the loveliest thing I had ever seen in my life.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 48
153
You said to me once that pathos left you unmoved, but that beauty, mere beauty, could fill your eyes with tears.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 48
154
She is everything to me in life.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 48
155
But an actress! Harry! why didn’t you tell me that the only thing worth loving is an actress?”
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 48
156
“Yes, Harry, I believe that is true. I cannot help telling you things. You have a curious influence over me. If I ever did a crime, I would come and confess it to you. You would understand me.”
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 54
157
“When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one’s self, and one always ends by deceving others. That is what the world calls a romance.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 57
158
“I want the dead lovers of the world to hear our laughter and grow sad. I want a breath of our passion to stir their dust into consciousness, to wake their ashes into pain.”
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 84
159
“Basil, my dear boy, puts everything that is charming in him into his work. The consequence is that he has nothing left for life but his prejudices, his principles, and his common sense.”
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 98
160
Good artists exist simply in what they make, and consequently are perfectly uninteresting in what they are.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 98
161
“He lives the poetry that he cannot write. The others write the poetry that they dare not realize.”
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 98
162
He was like one of those gracious figures in a pageant or a play, whose joys seem to be remote from one, but whose sorrows stir one’s sense of beauty, and whose wounds are like red roses.
Source: Chapter 5, Paragraph 102
163
Love is more than money.”
Source: Chapter 6, Paragraph 3
164
To be in love is to surpass one’s self.
Source: Chapter 6, Paragraph 59
165
“To see him is to worship him; to know him is to trust him.”
Source: Chapter 6, Paragraph 65
166
“I wish I had, for as sure as there is a God in heaven, if he ever does you any wrong, I shall kill him.”
Source: Chapter 6, Paragraph 75
167
“I hope the girl is good, Harry. I don’t want to see Dorian tied to some vile creature, who might degrade his nature and ruin his intellect.”
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 14
168
We are not sent into the world to air our moral prejudices.
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 19
169
The basis of optimism is sheer terror.
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 21
170
“We think that we are generous because we credit our neighbour with the possession of those virtues that are likely to be a benefit to us. We praise the banker that we may overdraw our account, and find good qualities in the highwayman in the hope that he may spare our pockets.”
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 21
171
“As for a spoiled life, no life is spoiled but one whose growth is arrested.”
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 21
172
I have been right, Basil, haven’t I, to take my love out of poetry and to find my wife in Shakespeare’s plays?
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 25
173
“Pleasure is the only thing worth having a theory about,”
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 37
174
“One can use them in fiction, of course. But then the only things that one can use in fiction are the things that one has ceased to use in fact.”
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 46
175
“Believe me, no civilized man ever regrets a pleasure, and no uncivilized man ever knows what a pleasure is.”
Source: Chapter 7, Paragraph 46
176
“It was here I found her, and she is divine beyond all living things.
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 3
177
“I understand what you mean, and I believe in this girl. Any one you love must be marvellous, and any girl who has the effect you describe must be fine and noble. To spiritualize one’s age—that is something worth doing. If this girl can give a soul to those who have lived without one, if she can create the sense of beauty in people whose lives have been sordid and ugly, if she can strip them of their selfishness and lend them tears for sorrows that are not their own, she is worthy of all your adoration, worthy of the adoration of the world. This marriage is quite right. I did not think so at first, but I admit it now. The gods made Sibyl Vane for you. Without her you would have been incomplete.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 5
178
“There are only two kinds of people who are really fascinating—people who know absolutely everything, and people who know absolutely nothing.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 25
179
“The secret of remaining young is never to have an emotion that is unbecoming.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 25
180
“You came—oh, my beautiful love!—and you freed my soul from prison. You taught me what reality really is.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 37
181
“You had made me understand what love really is.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 37
182
“I might mimic a passion that I do not feel, but I cannot mimic one that burns me like fire.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 37
183
“You have killed my love,”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 38
184
“I loved you because you were marvellous, because you had genius and intellect, because you realized the dreams of great poets and gave shape and substance to the shadows of art.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 40
185
“My God! how mad I was to love you! What a fool I have been! You are nothing to me now.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 40
186
“Without your art, you are nothing.”
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 40
187
She had marred him for a moment, if he had wounded her for an age.
Source: Chapter 8, Paragraph 55
188
“It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.”
Source: Chapter 9, Paragraph 18
189
“One can always be kind to people about whom one cares nothing.”
Source: Chapter 9, Paragraph 45
190
“You can talk to me of other women being charming, and of Patti singing divinely, before the girl you loved has even the quiet of a grave to sleep in?”
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 4
191
“What has the actual lapse of time got to do with it? It is only shallow people who require years to get rid of an emotion. A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure. I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.”
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 7
192
“You only taught me to be vain.”
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 9
193
“You come down here to console me. That is charming of you. You find me consoled, and you are furious.”
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 17
194
“To become the spectator of one’s own life, as Harry says, is to escape the suffering of life.”
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 17
195
You became to me the visible incarnation of that unseen ideal whose memory haunts us artists like an exquisite dream.
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 43
196
“Even now I cannot help feeling that it is a mistake to think that the passion one feels in creation is ever really shown in the work one creates.”
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 43
197
“It often seems to me that art conceals the artist far more completely than it ever reveals him.”
Source: Chapter 10, Paragraph 43
198
“I hope it is not about myself. I am tired of myself to-night. I should like to be somebody else.”
Source: Chapter 13, Paragraph 14
199
Sin is a thing that writes itself across a man’s face.
Source: Chapter 13, Paragraph 19
200
“One has a right to judge of a man by the effect he has over his friends. Yours seem to lose all sense of honour, of goodness, of purity. You have filled them with a madness for pleasure.”
Source: Chapter 13, Paragraph 21
201
“You have a wonderful influence. Let it be for good, not for evil.”
Source: Chapter 13, Paragraph 23
202
“So you think that it is only God who sees the soul, Basil? Draw that curtain back, and you will see mine.”
Source: Chapter 14, Paragraph 6
203
The prayer of your pride has been answered. The prayer of your repentance will be answered also. I worshipped you too much. I am punished for it. You worshipped yourself too much. We are both punished.”
Source: Chapter 14, Paragraph 28
204
“Your life? Good heavens! what a life that is! You have gone from corruption to corruption, and now you have culminated in crime. In doing what I am going to do—what you force me to do—it is not of your life that I am thinking.”
Source: Chapter 15, Paragraph 71
205
“You have saved me from ruin, Alan. I cannot forget that,”
Source: Chapter 15, Paragraph 93
206
“You were far too happy. When a woman marries again, it is because she detested her first husband. When a man marries again, it is because he adored his first wife. Women try their luck; men risk theirs.”
Source: Chapter 16, Paragraph 33
207
“Women love us for our defects. If we have enough of them, they will forgive us everything, even our intellects.”
Source: Chapter 16, Paragraph 35
208
“and Sibyl Vane was my sister. She killed herself. I know it. Her death is at your door. I swore I would kill you in return. For years I have sought you. I had no clue, no trace. The two people who could have described you were dead. I knew nothing of you but the pet name she used to call you. I heard it to-night by chance. Make your peace with God, for to-night you are going to die.”
Source: Chapter 17, Paragraph 50
209
“How can you say that? I admit that I think that it is better to be beautiful than to be good. But on the other hand, no one is more ready than I am to acknowledge that it is better to be good than to be ugly.”
Source: Chapter 18, Paragraph 18
210
“Ugliness is one of the seven deadly sins, then?”
Source: Chapter 18, Paragraph 19
211
“To be popular one must be a mediocrity.”
Source: Chapter 18, Paragraph 63
212
“Romance lives by repetition, and repetition converts an appetite into an art.”
Source: Chapter 18, Paragraph 67
213
Difference of object does not alter singleness of passion.
Source: Chapter 18, Paragraph 67
214
“We can have in life but one great experience at best, and the secret of life is to reproduce that experience as often as possible.”
Source: Chapter 18, Paragraph 67
215
“I am searching for peace,”
Source: Chapter 18, Paragraph 78
216
Actual life was chaos, but there was something terribly logical in the imagination.
Source: Chapter 19, Paragraph 2
217
In the common world of fact the wicked were not punished, nor the good rewarded.
Source: Chapter 19, Paragraph 2
218
“As for omens, there is no such thing as an omen. Destiny does not send us heralds. She is too wise or too cruel for that.”
Source: Chapter 19, Paragraph 25
219
Don’t let us talk about it any more, and don’t try to persuade me that the first good action I have done for years, the first little bit of self-sacrifice I have ever known, is really a sort of sin.
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 12
220
Death and vulgarity are the only two facts in the nineteenth century that one cannot explain away.
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 19
221
“All crime is vulgar, just as all vulgarity is crime. It is not in you, Dorian, to commit a murder. ”
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 25
222
“One should never do anything that one cannot talk about after dinner.
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 27
223
“Like the painting of a sorrow, A face without a heart.”
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 31
224
“Don’t, Harry. The soul is a terrible reality. It can be bought, and sold, and bartered away. It can be poisoned, or made perfect. There is a soul in each one of us. I know it.”
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 38
225
“Besides, Dorian, don’t deceive yourself. Life is not governed by will or intention. Life is a question of nerves, and fibres, and slowly built-up cells in which thought hides itself and passion has its dreams.”
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 43
226
“You and I are what we are, and will be what we will be.”
Source: Chapter 20, Paragraph 51

Recommended quote pages

J.R.R. TolkienDr. SeussMark TwainLewis CarrollLemony SnicketRoald DahlBrené BrownRobert FrostJane AustenEmily DickensonMichelle ObamaRalph Waldo EmersonMargaret AtwoodRachel HollisShel SilversteinDorian GraySibyl VaneevilgoodnessLord Henry WottonappearancesDr. Dorianlifeyouthgrowing upartsufferingartistsBasil Hallwardmoralsinnocencememoriesworthknowledgenaturefriendshipenemieslovemarriagehappinesssinmoneyfuturethe pastreadingthinkingbeautybookssocietyhappy endingsMiss PrismfictionAlgernontruthLady BracknellignorancelosswomenmothersmenGwendolynstylechangeeducationhypocrisyclevernessJack WorthingculturechildhoodCecilyvillainsagetrialsblessingsMrs. Cheveleyhuman naturebeing an exampleLady ChilternLady MarkbyLord GoringPersonalitiesMabel ChilternSir Robertforgivenesswealthregretsympathypoliticsfashionforgettingpsychologysciencepleasurejudgementperfectionpowerdoing goodLady BasildonlisteningtalkingprivacycompromisesHopeless RomanticplaySwallowHappy Princegoldthe poorchildrenhappy facelaughedgamesstreetsprayingfaithsweetgooddeathmercytearssinssadlyweepingVirginiaCanterville ghostpitymoonlightbeautifulfacecheeksgoldeneyesmarvelousmysterymiseryto flycitylookdutyhonorwindowsweekcorridorobligationssupernaturalescapepeacestrongearthgrasssilenceswallowcoverto be happysharing richesto beginto thinkfalling asleepsleeplittleprayergirlsto winlipshousesteachingsignificancecloudsa CrossblossommoonchurchyardfuneralssingingeverythingnowadayslanguageamericacommonEnglishbabiesbedabsurditycandledifficultieschurchsleepingcareerssmallsecretsrecoverybreathingbrilliantinsultedplacesgivenjewelsspringnot forgetthousandsghostsfamilypeoplesuccessnew yorkgrandfathersdieto livehappy lifecall mebeing aliveto entersorrowpalacehearthumanstonesboysdislikesummera riverrudenessthrowingMayorswordsgonebetterbeggarsNarrator (The Picture of Dorian Gray)artistCreatorimpressionstranslationscriticsmaterialsvicevirtueinstrumentsthoughtssymbolssurface leveladmirationuselessusefulcrowdtoo manyoddthrowing awayreputationpaintersthe worsttalking aboutsillinessbeing intellectualexpressionshideousdelightfulphysical appearancesnot being betterpeersdifferentvictoryto know nothingdefeatrevelationpaintingportraitsconsumeinner selfpersonalityfascinationvalueideassincerityto expressunbiasedprobabilitiesinsincereerashistorynewoil paintingimportantidolssouloneselfgiving awaysoulsvanitywho we arefinding your placeexistenceendureactorsinfluenceimposterpurposetrue natureresponsibilitycharitystarvedhungryneglectpurificationnothinglonginggiving inforbiddendesirestemptationget rid ofspoilingwordsalwaysruingrowing oldgive anythingeternalfightingbest friendsdestroyhidingconcealmentblood linesunfairnessbrute forceunbearablejoypaintaken seriouslyhumanitylaughingmistakesrepeatingto get backLady Victoria Wottonmusicgood musicbad musicconversationspricesknowing everythingliving your lifestrangerscuriositywonderingLondonplanssinnersdifferent peopledangerdelighthaving nothing to dopassionprivilegefaithfulnessbeing emotionalintellectfailureconsistencylonelinesslove at first sightpathosmovedthe whole worldworthwhileactresslovingconfidantto confessdeceiveromancedeceptionlaughterjealousyloverssadnesscore principlesprejudicesnothing leftartworkcommon senseboringwhat you arepoetrywritingwoundsrosesmore thanselflessnessin loveworshipseeingtrustknowingpromisesto killthreatJim Vanebeing good for youbeing open mindedoptimismfoundationsterrormotivesbenefitsadvantageshinderancegrowthbeing spoileda wifetheoryfactsnot knowingbeing civilizeduncivilizedfindingdivine loveapprovalfascinatingemotionsrealityto freeunderstandingtrue loveactingmimickingfalling out of lovegeniusdreamsfoolishnesswithoutnothingnessmomentarylastinghurtabsolutionpriestsconfessionskindnessnot caringsurpriselack of feelingenjoying lifepassage of timebeing consoledfuriousspectatorsidealinspirationcreationrevealingtalking about yourselfbeing tiredto be someone elseguiltfacial expressionsto losefriendsmadnessto seepunishmentprideprayerscrimecorruptionAlan Campbellto saveto remembergetting remarriedluckriskhusbandswivesdefectsrevengesuicidemurderuglinessGladys Hallwardpopularitymediocrityrepetitionappetitesdifferencesexperiencesliving lifesearchingreal lifelogicimaginationwickednessunpunishedrewardedomensdestinyfatecrueltygood deedsself-sacrificevulgarunexplainableincapablejustificationdo somethingpaintingsheartlessbarteringpoisonintentionsbe who you are
View All Quotes